Are you worried about dealing with your first post-divorce? The first Christmas after my separation, we decided to have a family meal. It wasn’t great, but we got through it. That year, my ex met a new partner, and good luck to them. Year two, he chose not to come over on Christmas day, which is understandable. So that second Christmas, I woke up in the morning feeling totally bereft. My two teenage boys were in the house but it was our first Christmas with no other family ar